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Minister: Rev. Robert A. Thayer
Minister Emeritus: The Rev. Dr.
Raymond C. Hopkins
Moderator: - Donna Holmes
Organist: Marlene Howell
Secretary: Nancy Smith
Office Phone: (508) 583-7775
e-mail: uubrockton@aol.com
web site: www.uubrockton.org
Vol. 58 Issue 11
May 2011

Sunday Services
Led by Rev. Robert A. Thayer
“Stewardship Sunday Sermon…”
Sunday, May 8,
2011
Led by Tony Toledo
Sunday, May15, 2011
Led by Rev. Robert A. Thayer
“Peace and Harmony…”
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Led by Rev. Robert A. Thayer
“Humanism in Organized Religion:…”
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Led by Guest Patricia Hatch
Annual Pledge Drive
Jay Rasher, Finance Commissioner
“It is better to know some of the questions than all of the answers”
James
Thurber
The annual Pledge drive has
begun and is running from April 15 to May 15, 2011.
Pledge cards have been made available before the pledge period.
If you do not have a pledge card, you may use the card found at the
bottom of this article.
The annual pledge is so
important to the Universalist Unitarian Church of Brockton because it raises
almost 30% of the church’s annual budget.
In other fundraising news, the
UU Annual Yard Sale will be held May
28, 2011 from 10-2. This
event is a great way to have fun and to make money at the same time.
We still need clean, usable
items to be brought to the church for the yard sale.
Workers are desperately needed to organize and run the yard sale.
Please contact Jay if you can help.
Fund raising and fun raising
are both important, but they can not happen without the congregation’s
active support and participation.
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ON
THE BRIGHT SIDE
REV. ROBERT THAYER
“Sailing The Inter-Faith
Seas”
This is a
practical approach to our urban ministry in downtown Brockton, and going
forward into the future with our people, our property, resources and funds.
This goes back to the Board Retreat in October 2010 when we did an
assessment, led by BCD consultant, Peter Bowden, and we explored how to make
our property available, not just on Sunday each week, but more often and on
a regular basis. We took the
approach that the virtual emptiness of the church except for four hours on
Sunday did no good except for us.
We realized that some Haitian congregations had begun to ask for and
gain rental use of the property.
We asked at the Retreat: What does this point to?
We assessed by anecdotal examples just how much the congregations
really appreciated the way in which we cooperated with them for special
events such as weddings, parties for celebrating life passages, and the
like. We came to the conclusion
that we were doing a real ministry for and with immigrant communities, as
they moved toward adjustment to American culture and strengthening their
self-worth and confidence “in the Lord’s doing” for them.
We looked at two other examples of the same ministry.
One is in Boston in the Episcopal Cathedral, where the Rector has
maintained a working relationship with a men’s Muslim prayer group since
1997. Another is in LA, where a
small UU church of 50 people has a vital relationship with several faith
groups in and around their neighborhood.
This led us to take up the idea of thinking of our property in terms
of an official “Inter-Faith Facility.”
Sitting in the old Ladies’ Parlor last week in the Religion and
Science workshop were about ten of us having an enlightened conversation
about the topics of existentialism and post- modernism.
It went on for two hours.
In the chapel were some ten people from their Nigerian nation holding
a worship and teaching service, which we could listen to out of the corner
of our ears without an intrusion into our Religion and Science workshop.
Then in the Fellowship Hall were gathered about ten people from a
Haitian congregation, which has a home with us, and they were holding
a worship, singing and preaching service.
Imagine three religious groups, one - ours a New England Unitarian
Universalist intellectual discussion about Science and Religion – a topic
that is so basic to us it goes back half a millennium, two - an African
church and three - a Haitian church.
Each of us sharing the same space.
Prejudice, fear, disdain were not present.
It felt for a moment like sitting in a program section of the United
Nations in NYC. It felt like
heaven to me, if you want to know.
Because each gathering was gaining some value to enable each to grow
toward the Good in this region, and not be put down or become rejected and
discouraged. Yes, that
applied to us UUs as well.
Some religions reject us because – well, the list goes on and on – we
are too intellectual.
Since 1995 our church has belonged to the Brockton Inter-Faith
Community, and now we begin to take another step forward toward our being on
board in our own ship, sailing the inter-faith seas.
Who knows where exactly this will lead, but we are on course.
Trust me. We are also
setting an example for the other UU congregations who really have their own
chance to become immersed in ethnic and religious diversity.

Worship and Program News
By Steve Brooks,
Commissioner
Worship and Program
Our Passover seder on April 17 was a rousing success,
with 25 members and friends in attendance.
Feedback has been universally positive, and I hope to do it again
next year.
Janet Feld’s Yom HaShoah remembrance on April 24 was
very well-received, and Inga Protentis’ spontaneous response was very
moving. I’d like to thank Inga
for sharing her story with us.
Rev. Bob will be in pulpit on May 1, 15 and 22.
On May 8 we welcome back the ever-popular Tony Toledo, and on May 29
we will have Patricia Hatch as our guest worship leader.
May 1st- “Stewardship Sunday Sermon – Give
As You Are Able – And Receive All Our Heartfelt Thanks.”
May 8th – Guest – Tony Toledo
May 15th – “Peace And Harmony Actually
Exists First Between Two People – Peace Between Nations Is The Final Goal.”
May 22nd - “Humanism in Organized Religion:
How UUs Changed Emerson’s ‘Man Is The Measure Of All Things’ To ‘Beyond Man:
We Want To Know And Measure Far More’. ”
May 29th – Guest Patricia Hatch
Third Sunday
Discussion -11:45 AM “How
Have You Formed And Grown Your
Faith/Ethics/Values During Your Lifetime?”
The
response to my call for coffee hour hosts has been excellent, but we still
have some Sundays open. Please
sign up on the sheet in Fellowship Hall or contact Steve Brooks,
339-788-9263.
“On Sunday, the first day of
daylight-saving time, a sleepy-eyed congregation watched the young priest
ascend the pulpit in a Washington church.
Not looking too wide awake himself, he began, ‘As you all know, we
lost an hour last night because of daylight-saving time.
I don’t know which hour you
lost, but I lost the hour in which I usually write my sermon.’
He returned to
the altar and continued the service.”
The Reader’s Digest Treasury of American Humor
“Church Sign: ‘This is a Ch – ch.
What is missing?’ “
WOMEN'S FELLOWSHIP

The theater party, or meeting with a romantic movie,
which had to be cancelled last February, is tentatively scheduled for
Thursday, June 16. Further
details will follow in the June Messenger
Mile
of Pennies
4
“When you become a parent, you can only begin to
discover your capacity for strength, love, and fatigue.”
Peter Gallagher
“Having a two-year-old is like having a blender
that you don’t have the top for.”
Jerry Seinfeld
Now our sixth mile of pennies has reached 582’2”.
Thank you for remembering your pennies.
They’re really beginning to add up.
UU Adult Education
On Wednesdays May 4 &11
At
7 PM (Note time change).
May 4
-“The Last Week Of Jesus’ Life As Recorded In The Gospels: How Three of The
Writers Blamed His Suffering And Death On The “Jews,” Not On The Roman
Governor.”
May
11th – 7:00 PM
“Poetry,
Essays, Proverbs, Plays, Novels and Arts:
For UUs These Contain Much of Our Scripture”
We invite you to share some examples of your own.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
TO ALL
of you with May Birthdays
Spring Song
A Blue-Bell springs
upon the ledge.
A lark sits singing in the hedge
Sweet perfumes scent the balmy air,
And life is brimming everywhere.
What lark and breeze and bluebird sing,
Is Spring, Spring, Spring!
The poetry of Paul Laurence Dunbar, 1896
Membership Committee Meets Sunday, May 1, 2011, after church at 11:30.
We will also meet on Sunday May 29 after the worship service.
Bring your coffee and goodies to discuss the 2011 Church
directory. See you then.
Margaret Potashnick
Sharing and Caring
Congratulations to Shannon
and Andrew Bassett at the recent birth of their daughter, Leighton Vivian
Bassett.
Congratulations also to
grandmother Irene, and to grandfather David.
May your whole family enjoy the promise of this new life.
Three cheers to Henry
Gregoire! The Unitarian
Universalist Association has accepted him as an official candidate for the
UU ministry. Keep up the good
work, Henry
Our best wishes go to Grace Perry for her upcoming operation in early May.
May you feel healthier and happier afterward, Grace.
Good
luck to Pearl Cohen and her business partner with their new company which
aims to protect us all, especially senior citizens, from predatory
telemarketers. They are working
to have legislation passed in Massachusetts to curb the overzealous and
sometimes fraudulent practices of professional fund-raisers.
We can all enjoy the peace and privacy.
Literary
Group
The
Literary group will meet Tuesday May 24, 2011 to discuss the book Plant
Dreaming Deep by May Sarton.
May Sarton is the pen name of
Eleanore Marie Sarton who was an American poet, novelist, and memoirist.
She was born in
Belgium, but the family moved to Boston when she was quite young.
She received her education in Cambridge and studied the theater in her
teens.
May was an
enthusiastic gardener and had a need for the solitude she found in a house she
bought in a remote village in New Hampshire after her 13 year relationship with
Judy Matlack ended when May’s father died.
Her 1988 book, Honey in the Hive is about her relationship with
Judy.
May died in 1995
of breast cancer and is buried in New Hampshire.
(Wickipedia and
book jacket)
Javawocky
Our April 23 show with Folk By Association had a somewhat
disappointing turnout of only 16 people, possibly due to Easter weekend and the
newness of the act. Our next show
will be on May 21, emma’s revolution, Pat Humphries and Sandy O.
Pat and Sandy have been referred to as “Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart
with guitars.” Talented performers
and political activists in the tradition of Pete Seeger and Phil Ochs, Pat and
Sandy performed at GA a few years ago.
I am really excited about this show and I’d like to get a big turnout for
this show. Tickets are $15.00 in
advance, $18.00 at the door, no one turned away.
“Woman to her husband, as they leave church:
Bob, I noticed you put ten dollars in the collection.
Now what have you got on your
conscience?”
May
2011 Church Calendar
May 1
UU Church service
10.00
Membership Committee
11:30
Phil. Church of God
12:30-4
2
Seventh Day Adventist
A.M.
Phil. Church of God
P.M.
4
UU Adult Ed
7:00PM.
7
Seventh Day Adventist
9-3
Phil. Church of God
9-12
8
UU Church Service
10:00
Phil. Church of God
12:30-4
9
Seventh Day Adventist
A.M.
Phil. Church of God
P.M.
11 UU Adult
Ed.
7:00 PM
14 Seventh
Day Adventist
9-3
Phil. Church of God
9-12
15 UU
Church Service
10:00
Third Sunday Discussion
11:30
Phil. Church of God
12:30 -4
16 Seventh
Day Adventist
A.M.
Phil. Church of God
P.M.
18 Religion
and Science
7:00 PM
19 UU Board
of Managers
4:30
21 Seventh
Day Adventist
9-3
Phil. Church of God
9-12
Javawocky
7:30
22 UU
Church Service
10:00
Phil. Church of God
12:30-4
23 Seventh
Day Adventist
A.M.
Phil. Church of God
P.M.
24 Literary
Group
10:00
28 Seventh
Day Adventist
9-3
Phil. Church of God
9-12
29 UU
Church Service
10:00
Membership Committee
11:30
Phil. Church of God
12:30-4
Body and Soul
Spring has sprung and summer will soon be here bringing us fascinating
speakers on a wide variety of topics in July and August.
Please call me to volunteer or suggest.
Pauline Perkins,
308-384-8581 or e-mail
perkins59@comcast.net
It would be appreciated and helpful if all articles for the newsletter could be
in the office by the Tuesday preceding the first Sunday of the following month.
For June, that date will be May 31, 2011.
All Annual Reports should be in by
May 15, 2011 to allow time for the booklets to be assembled.
Eating Right
It is important to remind ourselves of basic nutritional concepts
that help us maintain an appropriate weight, a balanced diet and a healthy
well-being.
NEVER SKIP BREAKFAST. Try to
eat within an hour of waking to keep your metabolism at its optimal level.
STAY HYDRATED.
Drink 8 glasses of fluids daily to maintain regularity, beat fatigue
and limit false hunger signals.
Fluids include, water, coffee, milk, juice, flavored waters etc.
LIMIT PROCESSED FOODS.
These foods tend to be higher in sugar, fat and sodium and contain
less vitamins & minerals. This includes prepackaged foods, frozen dinners, cured
meats & cheese.
BE MINDFUL OF PORTIONS. Each
year, the portions we are served and eat continue to escalate.
LISTEN TO YOUR HUNGER SIGNALS.
It’s a basic concept that most people do not follow:
“Eat when you feel hunger.
Stop when you feel full.
From the Brockton COA
newsletter
Special
Event
The Alzheimer’s Association is holding an event to honor those affected by
Alzheimer’s disease.
Illuminating Hope -
A Candlelight Tribute Rally is being
held on Thursday, May 12, 2011 from 7:00-8:00 P.M. on the Marshfield Town Green.
Show your concern for this growing epidemic – meet and hear family
members and caregivers.
An event to commemorate Yom HaShoa
is being held at the First Parish Universalist Church in Stoughton on Wednesday
May 4, 2011 at 7:30 P.M. A movie, “The Emperor of Atlantis” will be shown.
The Channing Unitarian Universalist Church in Rockland is having its annual
Plant Sale on Saturday, May 21 at 9: A.M.
There are many ways you can make every day
Earth
Day.
Consider these suggestions:
Purchase non-toxic cleaning products.
Use natural fiber sponges and cleaning agents that are biodegradable,
phosphate-free, chlorine-free, and unscented.
Reduce paper use. Use rags instead
of paper towels, cloth napkins instead of paper ones.
Buy post-consumer recycled paper and recycle it when you have used it.
Refurbish responsibly. Use
water-based or vegetable-based paints, stains and varnishes.
Don’t wash paint thinners, household cleaners, oil, or pesticides down
the drain or pour them on the ground; use them up, give leftovers to friends or
a charity, or dispose at your local toxic waste disposal center.
Repair instead of replace.
Reupholster furniture. Resole your
shoes.
Replace disposable goods with renewable ones.
Use dishes instead of paper plates.
Plant for the planet. Strenghten
your garden’s resistance to pests by planting resilient plants, rotating the
fruits and vegetables you plant.